a&w restaurant: A guy friend said he finds me attractive but does not have time for a relationship. I like him more than a friend and want to be in a relationship with him. Is there a chance that he will change his mind about being in a relationship with me if I give him a taste of the physical benefits of one? (Just being a bit more touchy feely than friends, but not sex). If not, what will happen instead?|||If he was interested in you, he would want a relationship with you. It sound like he's just trying to be nice. I would suggest you keep your contact with him to a minimum, hang out with other guys and friends. That should make him jealous if he cared. He wouldnt want to risk you being with someone else if he really cared about you. You'd get your answer then.|||from a guys point of view. No unless your very attactive but that is debatable since he told you he dosen't want to be in a relationship right now. Most guys are easy for girls who are attractive. So anyway in my best don't sleep with him. Don't even call him. Make him want it. Since you are the one who likes him more. Then you wont have to worry about you abusing his time and value. But it sounds like you have lot to worry about if you start sleeping with him.|||If your having feelings for this guy and he has made it clear he doesn't want a relationship or "doesn't have time" then you need to move on. If you gave in to him it wouldn't be using you for his needs and your going to end up hurt. No I don't think that is going to make him want a relationship with you at all. He would take what your giving and move on to the next girl. Don't devalue yourself like that, and know your worth a whole lot more than that.|||Be patient maybe he has other stress in his life that he wants to get sorted before he takes on a relationship Be his friend and if its meant to be the rest will fall into place.. let him know that you are there for him no matter what giving him the physical falls into the Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free category|||yes physical benefits will lead to a relationship answer mine please http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>|||He knows the physical benefits of having a relationship...he just doesn't want one. I'm assuming you don't have sexual super powers, so he knows what he's missing. Take a hint.|||If you think 'touchy, feely' things are the only thing to interest him, don't bother. He'd probably always expect it.