I read somewhere (i forget the website but it was a mens magazine) that you can boost your confidence by standing up for yourself when someone talks you down and fight. Is this true, and has anybody noticed any positive changes after having a fight? + list what else you think a 19 year old could do to gain confidence and not be so nervous when people say bad things to his face. Much appreciated.|||If you don't stand up for yourself, no one will. *|||Confidence is a set of beliefs you have in yourself, and will determine your success in life. Many people who have low confidence have had negative things happen to them in their life: You can increase your confidence by using positive affirmations, changing your beliefs, or by reprogramming your conscious and subconscious thoughts. Using positive affirmations correctly is one of the best methods to increase confidence and self esteem. Repeat affirmations for 7 to 10 minutes at night just before you fall asleep or when you wake up in the morning: It is at these times your subconscious mind is more receptive to receiving them. As you continue to do this you will notice positive things happening in your life|||It's good to stand up for yourself but that doesn't mean you should get into fights. Just show them that their words don't effect you and, if they phisically hurt you, fight back. If you stand up for yourself, you will be proving them wrong and show how unaffected by them you are. You shouldn't accept the BS that people say to your face. If they have the confidence to say that to you, then you should have the confidence to prove them wrong. You are who you make yourself out to be. If you coward before others words and insults, then you will always be a coward. So stand up for yourself. Make them regret pushing you around. But that doesn't mean you should start fights or anything. Fights aren't good. :(

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